A Mason's Work

[00:46] "As a guide, [you must] hyper focus on the people that you are trying to help."
[01:58] "One moment of careful noticing someone else's needs relative to the adversities that they're facing can be the life-saving or life-changing moment that a good guide is capable of."
[02:43] "You cannot do the work for someone else. You can help them make the work manageable. You can give them the emotional support required... but you cannot lift the stone for them."
[04:22] "That spotlight, that attention, is all in a very almost socratic kind of way where you ask the right questions so that the solutions emerge." 

• Empathy and Risk Tolerance: A guide must recognize that every individual has a different comfort level and personal risk tolerance.
• The "Gym" Philosophy: You can encourage someone to take on bigger challenges, but you can't "go to the gym and lift the weights" on their behalf.
• Creating Safety: Meaningful guiding provides the emotional support and trust necessary for an individual to take risks themselves.
• Socratic Architecture: A good guide "architects solutions" by asking the right questions, allowing the student to discover their own strength and agility.
• Lifelong Bonds: These collaborative experiences of shared risk and mentoring are where true fraternity and robust relationships emerge.

• Jorge