The Trowel and the Limits of Patience
Download MP3In this episode, we reflect on what it means to apply the Trowel—the Masonic tool of compassion and connection—when our patience is tested by behavior we don’t yet understand.
The conversation centers on how to hold space for members at different stages of development, and what happens when immaturity, frustration, or emotional volatility surfaces in the lodge. The Trowel is not about indulgence or appeasement. It’s about disciplined care—meeting others where they are, while still safeguarding the space.
🔑 Key Takeaways
- We all grow differently in different ways and you can't see the stone another brother is working.
- Masonic growth means tolerating discomfort while staying anchored in principle.
- The Trowel reminds us: care is a practice, not a posture.
💬 Featured Quotes
“Our brethren deserve compassion in those conversations. The application of the Trowel is our responsibility.” — [00:03:01]
“That compassion was once given you, hopefully in your life… The application of the tools of Freemasonry are in context.” — [00:04:10]
“For our younger brethren—and that’s really who this world is for when you think about it—a lot of them have different experiences.” — [00:01:56]
“What qualifies as toxic masculinity… a lot of folks don’t really understand what it means.” — [00:01:04]
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Creators and Guests
Host
Brian Mattocks
Host and Founder of A Mason's Work - a podcast designed to help you use symbolism to grow. He's been working in the craft for over a decade and served as WM, trustee, and sat in every appointed chair in a lodge - at least once :D
