The Secretary Series: The Recorder of Memory

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This episode kicks off a focus on the Secretary role, reframing it from a purely administrative job to a deep psychological function: the ability to process experience by separating factual data from emotional charge.

High-Value Quotables
[01:12] "When you take the role of secretary, one of the things that you promise to do is to keep an accurate recording of the proceeds of a meeting... only those things that were fit to be recorded for posterity's sake." 
[01:41] "We're really talking about the ability to retain and recall information that is appropriate and useful and free of the emotional language that oftentimes comes with our own memories." 
[02:05] "The secretary is the recorder of memory... This is also a role that you're going to want to step into on a regular basis when you are trying to diagnose and troubleshoot something that may be going on in your world." 
[04:14] "Across the broad swath of your memories and your recollections... they are very likely recorded both with factual content, as you saw it at the time, as well as with emotional content, which you're going to benefit from removing." 
The Core Concept: Working with the "Inner Secretary"
The Secretary function represents our ability to record "what actually happened" in a way that remains useful for the future. By viewing the Secretary as a "recorder of memory," we can learn to strip away the "emotional content" that often distorts our past, allowing us to see facts clearly and troubleshoot our lives with greater objectivity.

Key Takeaways:
  • Posterity and Fitness: The Secretary doesn't record everything; they record what is "fit to be recorded" for the sake of future use.
  • Separating Facts from Feelings: Memories are often encoded in a high emotional state (frustration, agitation), which makes recalling the event trigger that same emotion.
  • Troubleshooting the Past: By taking the emotional "charge" off of an event, you stop interpreting history through a lens of anger or helplessness.
  • Fertile Territory: Working with your "inner secretary" is one of the best ways to navigate problems in your own mind or within a room.
Reflection Question:
If you stripped the "emotional charge" away from your most frustrating recent memory, what facts would remain on the page? 
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Brian Mattocks
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Brian Mattocks
Host and Founder of A Mason's Work - a podcast designed to help you use symbolism to grow. He's been working in the craft for over a decade and served as WM, trustee, and sat in every appointed chair in a lodge - at least once :D
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