The Secretary Series: The Pearl of Wisdom
Download MP3In the series finale, we look at the "temporal" nature of the Secretary role—how re-processing old memories with new perspectives can lead to personal grace, forgiveness, and the discovery of hidden wisdom.
High-Value Quotables
[01:04] "I was so upset that somebody in an educational role was essentially telling me that changing the world was impossible and that I should just try and be happy."
[02:04] "Peeling off the emotional content, the emotional layers of that interaction is understand that... he might have been describing something completely different in terms of his response."
[03:21] "This secretary kind of mind and start working through our own stuff... taking what you know now and applying it to who you were then to find ways to give yourself that grace and forgiveness."
[04:26] "The ground for the person tomorrow that gets to make a better decision because of the records kept today... you get to determine what's in your history book. Use it well."
The Core Concept: From Grain of Sand to Pearl
The Secretary function isn't just about recording the present; it’s about the active maintenance of the past. By revisiting old memories—like a high school interaction that caused "seething contempt"—and removing the emotional layers, we can transform a painful "grain of sand" into a "pearl" of insight.
Key Takeaways:
- Misplaced Emotional Content: We often record memories with "vim and vigor" or youth that can misinterpret the intent of others based on our own "present appetite" at the time.
- Temporal Awareness: The Secretary role helps you understand what is worth committing to memory now versus what is worth letting go of for the future.
- Grace and Forgiveness: Applying modern knowledge to old memories allows you to provide yourself with the grace that the "secretary of the time" couldn't afford.
- The Record as Agency: You have the power to choose which data makes it into your personal history book to enable a better version of yourself tomorrow.
- The Goal of Happiness: Sometimes the facts of a situation contain a hidden truth: it doesn't matter if you change the world if you aren't happy.
Reflection Question:
What "grain of sand" in your past is waiting for your inner Secretary to strip away the emotion and turn it into a pearl of wisdom?
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Host and Founder of A Mason's Work - a podcast designed to help you use symbolism to grow. He's been working in the craft for over a decade and served as WM, trustee, and sat in every appointed chair in a lodge - at least once :D