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So, when we talk about behavioral level junior warden, when we talk about applying the junior

warden role at a behavioral level to your behavior or to the behavior of others, the very

first skill that stands out is the skill of noticing.

There's lots of different things that you're going to want to develop in terms of cultivating

that junior warden understanding.

Noticing your own bodily sensations is a skill called interoception.

It's actually probably less a skill and more of its own sense.

And we just recorded a beautifully descriptive episode of this on our YouTube channel.

And it talks, I speak with a nationally recognized expert in the field of interoception,

about what does noticing mean, how does it get someverted, and taking the data from your body

and using it to inform how you operate.

So, step one, if you have a moment, go to that YouTube video and give it a look.

That skill and understanding the nature of that skill and what it is will give you a lot of insight

into what kind of information you're looking for behaviorally or systemically from a junior warden

perspective. When we look at the behaviors of a junior warden or the behavior that a junior warden

is going to be looking for to determine whether or not to call the craft from labor to refreshment

to stop what you're doing and recharge the batteries, which is very, very difficult to do in our

modern society. When we try to apply the junior warden perspective here, we have to start

by being quiet, by slowing down the sort of mental cognitive process and listening to the environment,

listening to your internal environment, your physiological responses, I am hungry, I am hot, I am

feeling exer-y or z, I have anxiety and that feels like a tenseness in my shoulders.

Whatever those kinds of sensory data that you want to collect is going to be vital to the

process of understanding how do I determine when I need to take a break? There are some of you out

there that have this skill already in spades, so from that perspective, you may not necessarily

need to cultivate additional sensitivity there. To be clear, cultivating sensitivity, cultivating

awareness is not necessarily trying to make the symptoms go away. It is not trying to stop pain,

it's not trying to stop discomfort, it's not trying to stop any of those things. At this stage

of the process as junior warden, we're just trying to notice what's going on, notice our behavior

and notice the sensations in the world around us. Once we have that, once we've accomplished that

noticing, we should then be able to begin to analyze what's going on. If we note, for example,

and this is where you can start breaking out your tools, break out your cable to, break out your

24-inch gauge, break out your compasses, break out your square, we can start to analyze the

perhaps the cause of why you're feeling the way you're feeling, or why the environment in the room

is operating the way that it is. Maybe you have in your large room from a behavioral perspective,

somebody's got just need to suck up all the attention in the room, and every time someone else

gets some attention, the conversation breaks down or erodes. This happens a lot, so we'll get

more into that in the relational side of the conversation. But again, when we start talking about

that junior warden understanding to call yourself from rest to refreshment, when no further progress

is possible, or progress is limited because the resources are not where they need to be. You don't

have enough fuel left in the tank. You don't have enough emotional resilience, you're overwhelmed,

whatever the case may be, the junior warden is that management of that regulatory capacity.

It takes a little while, and if you're like most people, there's a good chance you have learned

to repress a lot of the signals that you're getting from your body. You may not have learned how to

read the room as it were when you look out into the relationships in your life, cultivating this

sensitivity. Again, not to indulge it, not to indulge the sensations, not to try and make them go

away, not to judge them or evaluate them, but just to cultivate that awareness will enhance your

ability to then determine what the right sort of course of action is for you moving forward.

Again, if you haven't watched that view video on our YouTube channel about Interreception,

I encourage you to do so. Kelly Mallor is brilliant in her ability to explain what this means and

kind of what it means socially for us and how that works. Again, it's entirely relevant to the

junior warden's perspective as you're trying to solve problems in your everyday life.

I'll include a link in the show notes. See you tomorrow.